Hell Hath No Fury Like Nicole Murphy’s Scorn

It’s currently in the press right now. Retired Giants football player and popular talk show host Michael Strahan, and Eddie Murphy’s ex-wife and model Nicole Murphy, have split up after a 7 year relationship that included a 5 year engagement. This comes at the exact moment that Michael is being inducted into the NFL Hall […]

When Husbands Become Idols: Jada Pinkett’s Testament

We used to have all these rules, [but] as you go on in your relationship, you just get into a flow,” she says. “The thing I love is being in a place where it’s just like, Will, to me, encompasses everything. It’s almost as if calling him ‘my husband’ is too small of a word for what […]

How Standards Keep You Happier Than Kourtney Kardashian

My beloveds, I am guilty of something. I must confess. Out of sheer curiosity, I decided one summer day with nothing else to do, to watch ONE episode of the reality show, Keeping Up With the Kardashians. One episode. I normally don’t watch these type of shows, for I believe if you want to watch […]

How to Stop Catching Feelings So Soon

Women love to be swept off their feet. We’re a sucker for romantic love stories and fairytale happily-ever-afters. But these perceptions DO NOT serve us WELL. Do you know the main source of this brainwash thinking? Hollywood movies. Scandal type television. Beauty and lifestyle magazines. “Love” Songs. Even family and friend folklores. Women are waiting for […]

Losing Cheap Battles to Win a Costly War

Yesterday I was truly blessed enough to attend a wonderful service that truly exhorted me. “Losing Some Battles to Win the War” was the message. The Rev. Dr. William Watley gave many testimonies from personal experiences, church and secular stories, to fish. Yes fish. He took the congregation on a wonderful journey. When his father […]

Gabrielle Union’s Decision: Marry a Cheating Boyfriend?

Without passing judgement on this girl or her fiancee, I’d like to address the Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade situation when it comes to women of standard, and cheating. Whether it be fresh off the press once you read this, or many years passé, the scenario is a timeless, universal one that all unmarried women […]

7 Spiritual Standards to Live by This Year

What part of your being will lead you in the New Year? Will it be your SOUL (personality, will, feelings, thoughts) BODY (physical), or SPIRIT (channel connecting us to God)? Often when we live by our SOUL and BODY, we make the same shameful mistakes, drive down the same dead-end roads, and recycle the same […]

Recognizing Your Future Husband This Year

I wrote a post not too long ago called, Are You Looking for Your Husband by Appearance? And boy, ain’t that the truth! Women are trying to recognize what will be the love of their lives by natural, temporal, sensual cues, such as physical attraction, chemistry, emotional intimacy, a picture in their heads, someone elses’ relationship, […]

The POWER of a Non-Marital Vow

Usually when we think of vows, we think of ‘marital’ vows. Usually. Many unmarried women think that we don’t make a REAL Godly vow until we get married. But marital vows are just one way we can wholeheartedly commit ourselves to undertaking something Holy in Jesus Name. And the bond is just as POWERFUL. Vows […]

Playing Olivia Pope: Are You Too Far Gone?

I watch #Scandal starring Kerry Washington as crisis manager and ‘fixer’ Olivia Pope (you probably do too). I’ve also started watching #Homeland starring Claire Danes as bipolar CIA agent Carrie Mathison.   I must say, these shows have me HOOKED, but these two women… Let’s just say I’d like to give a good pep talk […]

Waiting on a Husband by Appearance?

You will SEE as GOD sees. You will NOT recognize your‪ future husband‬ by size & appearance, you will recognize HIM by his HEART!”  (I Sam. 16:7)   Related Posts: #1 Way to Know He’s Not Your Future Husband God Told You He’s Your Husband Did He? The Golden Standard for Marriage: Friendship 1st Waiting on Your […]